How To Get A Girl To Like You!
Or rather... How to become the type of guy girls like to be around.
How to get a girl to like you - Tip 1:
Girls appreciate respect. Respect is the most essential quality in the dating art. The more you show it to others, the more you will receive it in return. A respectful attitudeshows her that you value her as a person. Learn not to judge her interests— respect her point of view, her personal boundaries, her beliefs and her values. This general respect will translate into small actions, and ones that will be noticed by the girl who’s attention you want to get. Don’t interrupt her when she is talking. Open her car door etc... If you want a girl to like you RESPECT HER.
How to get a girl to like you - Tip 2:
Girls react positively to those that are sincere. Never try to be something you are not. Avoid being a chameleon personality, who changes favorites, attitudes, and perspectives with each person. Sincere people have little to hide, and do not fear “being discovered” by those around them. As you follow the general rule of being sincere with those you date, you will find that you think before you speak, that you say things that you mean, that your compliments are more meaningful and believable. You will find you become more thoughtful and appreciative of others, and you will find that you attract sincere people to you.
How to get a girl to like you - Tip 3:
Don’t take yourself so seriously.
Relax. Trying to make a girl like you can be a source of great anxiety and awkwardness. These can both be avoided if you maintain a casual outlook. People that learn to laugh at themselves, and take things one step at a time find that they are more relaxed in a date setting, and have an easier time talking and being themselves. Those who relax help their date to feel relaxed, and you then have an opportunity to talk openly and honestly, without worrying too much about hidden meanings and if the other person is having a good time. Those who are too uptight often cannot enjoy the date, and will find that their date doesn’t enjoy them much. Sometimes things will not go as planned. It could be a flat tire, or a forgotten wallet, or a sold out show. Those who stay low-key will find that they are less upset by these setbacks, and will be less bothered and flustered when seeking a solution. They also gain an easy security—a confidence in their abilities as a valuable person. Remember, you want this girl to like you and not care so much what you do on your date, as long as that person is with you.
How to get a girl to like you - Tip 4:
If you want to get someone to like you integrity goes a long way. Integrity means living the way that you say you do. Honesty - It is more than not lying. Never say you are something that you are not. It will not help you to win in any area. Never say you believe something that you don’t. Never do something that you normally would not do just to impress someone else. This keys into the sincerity idea, but also goes beyond it. Integrity is a rare quality, and those who have it will find that they are not easily compromised by difficult situations. They are able to express their desires and beliefs easily, and have confidence in themselves. They reflect a high self- esteem and positive thinking. Those with integrity will find they attract others who hold similar standards of living, and will more easily determine those with whom they can be happy.
How to get a girl to like you - Tip 5:
A slightly different thread for number five... hygiene
I you want to get a girl to like you basic cleanliness and appearance makes a huge difference on your success in the dating zone. Brush your teeth, shave etc... When you take care of yourself, it makes you more appealing to others, whether dating or not, and it will have an impact on your level of confidence. If you are going to see that “girl who you want to like you” make sure you are feeling and looking your best. Girls notice things like bad breath, scruffy faces and greasy hair before they notice that winning personality. Give them a chance to see your good qualities by making a good first impression.
How to get a girl to like you - Tip 6:
Kindness and charm
I group these together because if you want girls to like you you should never try to use charm without kindness. Charm is something that most people talk about, but don’t really know what it is. That is why I put kindness into the same category. If you treat your date with genuine kindness – That is what charm is. True charm cannot exist without kindness. Those who are kind will find charm comes without trying. Those who try to be charming without being kind will appear fake or insincere. In essence, kindness is charm. How do you treat people with kindness? Have genuine concern for their well-being and happiness.
5 More Tips:
How to get a girl to like you
1. Don’t talk about dates you have had with other people, especially on a first date. Believe me, you can find better things to talk about.
2. If you want to get a girl to like you try not to compare her with other girls you have been on dates with, even in your mind.
3. Don’t talk about yourself the whole time. People have a tendency to talk about themselves too much, especially when they are nervous. If you feel like you need to say something, ask a question instead. Remember to listen as much as you speak.
4. Don’t put her down, or demean her in any way. Respect. Always respect.
5. Respect your date’s personal space and boundaries. Never make them uncomfortable. This will not work in your favor.
So there you have it! if you want to get a girl to like you, these qualities and atributes will help. Just remember these qualities, take practice. The artist works and learns through experience, and so will you.
You will find that as you work on these few generalities, you will like the person that you become. Becoming a better person is really the best way to get a girl to like you!
Remember if she doesn’t fall for you its not a failure, you will learn more about yourself and eventually you will find the girl your are meant to be with. There is no perfect way to get every girl to like you. But as you become a better person you will find you attract more people to you.
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